Anchored Alignment Field Manual
A living collection of entries designed to help you return quickly to truth in real-life moments. Anchored Alignment is a way of life, not just an in the moment tool
Gentleness
Reality
• I feel uptight and strained.
• My tone is often sharp and hurtful to others.
• I’m often hard on myself.
• I often feel “on edge”.
• I struggle to truly feel at rest on the inside.
• I don’t always respond in a caring way. I’m often viewed as “hard”.
• I’m afraid of losing control if I choose to be gentle.
• I get annoyed and lose patience when people don’t “get it” and just move forward with life.
• I feel worn down being around someone who struggles with anxiety or low self-worth.
Anchored Truth
• “You are gentle with me. I can soften in Your presence.”
• “I don’t have to carry tension. I can release it and rest with You.”
• “You are not harsh with me. I don’t have to be harsh with myself.”
• “Your gentleness forms my tone as I abide with You.”
• “You are strong and steady and I rest in Your strength. I don’t have to guard myself.
• “I feel irritated and I turn to You and breathe. Meet me here and steady me.”
• “You are patient with me, and Your patience can rise in me right now.”
Scripture
Matthew 11:29 - Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS.
Philippians 4:5 - Let your gentle spirit be known to all people. The Lord is near.
2 Corinthians 12:9 - And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.
James 1:19,20 - You know this, my beloved brothers and sisters. Now everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for a man’s anger does not bring about the righteousness of God.